Are you ready to stop depression from destroying your family?

Did you know that families in which one person suffers from depression are 9 times more likely to break up?

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Some families even have to have their own children removed from the home because depression makes the home an impossible place in which to live. It happens to far too many families and it's absolutely devastating!

My name is Steve Lowell, and I can tell you from experience that when depression sets into a family, no one in that family is immune to its destructive effects.

A depression stricken home is not a very happy place, not by a long shot!

For six years I was what I call "a silent victim" and my life was completely unliveable as my wife, Sharon, suffered with extreme debilitating depression, anxiety disorder, a severe sleep disorder, destructive obsessive compulsive behaviour, rage and several other behavioural disorders.

Over that six year period, our marriage was on a day-by-day basis. I had, in fact, seen a lawyer three times, had the divorce papers drawn up and ready to sign at any time.

I lived my life in a packed and ready state so that I could be out of the house in less then 5 minutes with everything I needed to start my life over again.

Every time I was on my way out, which was almost every day, I was always stopped by one question that kept popping up in my mind..."Have I done all that I can do to make this work out?". The answer was always the same. "No. I do have one more day left in me". So I stayed...one day at a time. But it was FAR from a happy life. I was miserable!

Does any of this sound familiar to you?...

You are afraid to go home because you don't know what to expect when you get there.

You "walk on eggshells" all the time so you don't set things off with your depressed love one.

You cancel plans and make excuses for your depressed loved one all the time.

What should be happy family events are turned into stressful and unhappy times.

Your depressed loved one is showing bizarre or aggressive behavior towards you, maybe towards everyone in the family. They have absolute control over the entire household.

Is Depression Robbing You and Your Family of Absolutely Everything?

Depression has cost our family literally hundreds of thousands of dollars!

It has cost us our home, our savings, our investments, our friendships and relationships with loved ones, it almost cost us our marriage, and my wife her very life. Depression destroys lives ... period!

 

Does any of this sound familiar to you?...

You have spent ridiculous amounts of money on every kind of solution you can think of, but the results just don't seem to be there.

Your friends and family don't come around any more or don't invite you to things because they don't understand the behaviors of your depressed loved one.

Your depressed love one is showing obsessive behaviors which have robbed you of your finances, your savings, maybe even your home.

Those closest to you are wondering why are are putting yourself through this; wondering why you don't just leave.

We invested everything we had into Sharon's healing. We lost our home, our savings, our investments, many of our friends and we ended up over $150,000.00 in debt. To top it all off, my health began to fail because of the relentless stress. All of this was a result of our efforts to find a way to be able to make our lives work in spite of her depression.

Is Depression in Your Family Destroying Even YOUR health?

After six years of living in just about the most unhappy circumstances I could imagine, I began to become ill myself. I developed ulcers, chest pains and huge dark circles under my eyes.

My doctor had me go through cardiac tests, blood tests and after multiple visits he determined that I was becoming dangerously close to having serious and irreversible health problems because of the stress at home.

Does any of this sound familiar to you?...

You have given up on doing the things you used to love to do.

Your energy level has dropped through the floor.

You feel heavy, sad, angry or stressed almost all of the time.

You are showing signs of illness; chest pains, headaches, upset stomach, sleeping problems.

You just want out, but you can't bring yourself to leave.

Your Life Doesn't Have to Be That Way; Here Is Your Solution ...

Sharon's miraculous healing happened because of all the work and research that we have done, and now we are committed to helping others who suffer as we have suffered. This live seminar is part of my contribution. In the Victory for the Silent Victim seminar, I share how I made it through one day at a time when there was no happiness, no enjoyment of life, no more money, and no hope.

Don't let your life be the next one destroyed because someone you love suffers from depression. You can't help your loved ones survive depression and anxiety if the effects of depression incapacitate you. You must do what is right for YOU in order to be able to do what is right for them.

This seminar details the lessons that we have learned the hard way through our trials and challenges with my wife's severe depression which almost ended our marriage several times.

Why Should You Believe Us?

Because we have been there, and we know how to survive it!

We know what you are going through and we know how tough it is to live your life one minute at a time just dreading what the next moment might bring.

We know that sick feeling you have in the pit of your stomach every time you walk into your own home because you don't know what to expect this time.

We know the feeling of helplessness you feel when your depressed love one is very seriously talking about committing suicide.

We know the confusion and frustration you feel when your depressed loved one is acting bizarre and completely unpredictable.

We know how it feels to just want out!

I have seen my kids live in fear of their mom, I have seen my wife in a suicidal state, I have lost my home, my money, my friends and my health, and I gained it all back!

It took me six years, but I made it through and so did my entire family, including my wife.

We did it! We can help you do it! But only if you take the first step.

You don't need to spend six years searching for answers, they're right here, right now!

This Information Can Save Your Family, Yes Really!

Once we were able to put all of this information into practice ourselves, we began to see major changes in our lives.

For me, it took years to figure all of this out, and once I did, I was able to recover my own health, bring happiness back to my home and live my life the way I wanted to.

All of this also allowed me to be in a better position to help my wife find real healing. This information has saved our marriage...there is just no doubt about that!

Here are the changes you can expect by putting this information into practice in your life:

Reduce, or even eliminate the stress caused by depression in the family.

Understand why depression causes so much trouble and learn to handle the problems with so much more control.

Regain your health and bring enjoyment back into your life.

Stand firm and confident in the face of even the most difficult challenges caused by depression in the family and avoid confrontation.

Learn to help your depressed loved one by knowing when and how to lovingly hold them accountable for their own actions.

Be comfortable in your own home without feeling victimized by your depressed loved one.

In The Victory for the Silent Victim Seminar You Will Learn:

What depression really is, why it's there and how to effectively deal with it.

The 5 unconscious stages of coping and learning to live with depression in the family and why you really need to be aware of them.

How your best intentions can cause severe damage to your relationship, and how you can avoid that from happening.

What to do when you are at the end of your rope.

Why you need to be careful where you look for help and support, and how to select the right people to turn to.

What steps you can take to make your own life FAR more enjoyable in spite of the hard times at home.

What the health implications are to you by not taking proper corrective action.

What the roles of various health specialists are in relation to treating depression.  This helps you to know what to expect from them.

Here's What Others Are Saying About "Victory for the Silent Victim"...

These testimonials are from people who have listened to the "Victory for the Silent Victim" audio program,

"One of my teachers once told  me 'You can only lead someone into the light as far as you have gone.'  And that is also true about leading someone out of the darkness.  Steve’s story is nothing less than remarkable, incredible and profoundly inspiring.  The techniques, methods and mindset that Steve teaches is utterly critical for anyone who is suffering from the difficulties of dealing with depression in his/her family.  The resources available to us are few and far between.  I am delighted and inspired that this knowledge and wisdom is available for families who are going through this tough time.  As Steve teaches, there is a light at the end of the tunnel.  There is hope.  And with his gentle and caring guidance, you will begin your journey in restoring your own happiness and speeding up your arrival to the light.  Don’t pass up this opportunity to learn from someone who has not only been there, but who has come out the other side, strong, happy and fulfilled."

Dr. Blaise Ryan - Ottawa, Canada

www.LuminaOttawa.com

 

"In this audiotape, Steve shares profound and compassionate reflections on his journey as a partner of a loved one suffering from severe depression. He provides us with a clear understanding of the stages that took him from distress and helplessness to compassion and understanding. The gift of his insights is to articulate the experience of depression from both perspectives and to legitimize the experience of the silent partner who has too often been forgotten. It is no doubt a priceless contribution"

Dr. Marie-Sylvie Roy Ph.D., C.Psych - Quebec, Canada
Dr. Lina Charette Ph.D., C.Psych - Quebec, Canada

 

"insightful real life ways to get through depression in your family. I would recommend to anyone who has a family member or friend that is dealing with depression to check this program out."

Dr. Troy Wohlgemuth - Louisville, Kentucky

 

"Wow ... you did a great job on the audio! You really have done your homework. I can truly agree with what you shared. Truly a very moving and powerful reason for people to educate themselves for both their families and themselves. You really touched on some real areas ... like keeping the secret ... I so relate big time as I still struggle with that!"

B. D. MacInnes - Nova Scotia, Canada

 

"I was spell-bound as I listened to your 'Victory for the Silent Victim' audio program. It truly is your and Sharon's extraordinary love story; it has a profound message to ALL families--young and old, suffering from depression or not, simply lacking harmony in their relationships--the message of dedication to detached duty to the Other. Your analysis and lessons learned apply to everyone."

Anil Agrawal - Ottawa, Canada

 

"There are a lot of books and audios on the market that discuss what to do and where to go to get help. The clear difference in your audio program is the compassion and pain you went through. You take us into your private lives and you discuss emotions that most people fear speaking out loud.

Your reflections on what it took for you to come to grips with Sharon’s severe depression while dealing with your own internal demons is very eye opening and something that everyone should take time to understand. How in the end you chose to resolve and help instead of taking the easy way out and running away. "

Alex Ribeiro - Ottawa, Canada